试论父亲媒介形象在家庭教育中的导向作用

On the Guiding Role of Father's Media Image in Family Education

伴随着社会经济的飞速发展,社会体制的不断变革,父亲——这一社会体制中的主要承载角色,在我们心中的形象也在不断变化。父亲角色的演变过程主要分为三个阶段:首先是传统导向阶段,父亲就是孩子的榜样,而且就是儿子长大以后的形象载体;其次是内心导向阶段,在社会迅速发展时期,思想自由开放,互相之间出现了猛烈的碰撞,在现实与理想之间,人们开始寻找自我渴望实现的主体,而父亲这一形象就是该阶段的精神载体;最后阶段是他人导向阶段,在当代社会,父亲形象在家庭结构的缺席已经成为普遍现象,父亲在孩子的成长过程中所建立的形象比较模糊,所以,孩子成长中的父亲印象是由父亲主体、学校、其他长辈、媒介平台等共同塑造而成,在这一阶段,外界力量成为了刻画父亲形象的一种重要导向。

With the rapid development of social economy and the continuous change of the social system, the father, the main carrier of the social system, is changing in our hearts. The evolution of the role of the father is mainly divided into three stages:the first is the traditional stage, father is an example of the children, and is the son of the image carrier grow up; second is heart oriented stage, in the period of the rapid development of society, open mind, a fierce collision occurred between each other, between the reality and the ideal people. Start looking for self desire to achieve the main body, and the image of the father is the spiritual carrier phase; the final stage is people oriented stage in contemporary society, the image of father in the absence of family structure has become a common phenomenon, the father established during the growth of children's image is fuzzy, so that children grow in my father is the father of impression subject, school and other elders, and other common media platform formed at this stage, external power in order to depict an important orientation of father image.