大学生如何远离恋爱误区

College Students:How to Free Themselves from the Mistaken Ideas about Love

大学生要远离排斥传统和理性的恋爱误区,必须对爱情的涵义与互爱、专一、无私、持久等基本特征有正确的认识,能够树立事业至上、并争取事业爱情双赢等正确的恋爱观,学会正确处理与恋爱相关的多种重要关系:如恋爱与学业的位置、恋爱与友谊的关系,“第三者”的道德问题、婚前性行为的道德问题,失恋的道德问题,才能最终获得幸福的爱情。

To free themselves from the mistaken ideas about love ,college students must have a correct understanding of the meaning of love and its basic features such as mutual love ,constancy,selflessness,lasting ,etc .They must foster the correct concepts of love such as the career being above everything else ,striving for a victory for both the career and love ,etc .They should also learn to correctly handle the important relations and problems relating to love :the relations between love and studies ,between love and friendship,etc ;and the moral problems of the other person ,premarital sex ,etc .