摘要
爱情肯定是一种能量,至于这种能量是将人往前推还是往后拉,就像核能一样。做成原子弹用到战场上,当然是伤亡惨重:和平时期的核能却是经济而又干净的——只要不发生核泄漏。有一段时期,中国人倾向于将爱情与事业对立。而在中国古代的传统是早婚早育,并没有一定要金榜题名才结婚的说法,至于"匈奴未灭.何以家为"则是特定背景下的爱情事业观。这一点恰巧与大部分拉丁民族的观点相似,他们认为一个人要成家后方知道责任.才算是成熟,反过来家庭的责任又会促进事业的发展。南美的足球选手基本早婚.就是例子。然而几乎人所共知的一点是.除了责任外.爱情总是能够激发人的一部分潜能.拿现役羽坛"第一情侣"林丹和谢杏芳来说,他们在爱情和羽毛球两方面表现出的执著是同一的。羽坛情侣众多,虽然并未对对成功,但是当爱情还在的时候,同行情侣间总是多了一分亲切与理解。
Badminton world champion Xie Xingfang leapt to the defense of her boyfriend Lin Dan during the Asian Games after he was accused of being arrogant and widely disliked,calling his accuser Taufik Hidayat'cold'. 'If we're talking about arrogance and cold personality then I definitely think that Taufik is worse than Lin Dan,'said Xie,who also blasted Taufik's temperament which has seen him walk off court before,as in Hong Kong in September when he picked up his bags and stormed out of his quarter-final against Lin after only five points.
