手指

成长总有特定的标识,像一个又一个界碑,它排列在人生漫长却又无限短暂的征程中。如何发现确认这些标识,并将其真正作为下一步路途的界碑,从而完成最终的方向到达,成为我们每个人面对人生的必需之事。陈陈在“自闭”(或曰自恋)中找到了自己成长的印证:“我的手指终于有了完整的皮肤,我想我是长大了”;“我的手指用疼痛和破碎记录了我的成长。" 从严格意义上讲,这其实并不是一种心理学意义上的“极度抑郁症”。他对于手指的“轻微伤害”暗示了一种成长所必须的疼痛,但他更多的还是对这位“手指伙伴”的相互激励,从“保护”、“抚摸”可以看出他们在成长之路上密切配合的意识。通过“手指伙伴”的指引,陈陈逐渐稳住了自己对于“长大”的迫切情绪,以一种安静从容的姿态把握了自己的“内心”:手指“渐渐被打磨”,“新的肌肤慢慢长出来”,“眼泪没有了,心静如水"。

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In China,if you are not married by the time you are 30,you are in for trouble:social blame& pressure from family & friends can get you down(令你失望).And if you are a woman it seven worse.Many young people get married simply to get other people off their backs(免受别人的指责).This is a serious compromise(妥协)with their ideals(理想).One ends up not marrying theideal partner(伴侣).